Sep 042013
 

 

Whether you’re just starting out or are a seasoned pro, each couple participating in BDSM needs a few crucial toys and props to make their sexual exploration a little more explosive. Check out these 9 must have bondage toys.

1. Spreader Bars

Spreader bars are a fun way to make your sub assume an open position, whether it be their legs or arms. These metal bars have cuffs affixed to the end and allow you to position them between your sub’s ankles or wrists. The width and strength of the bar limit their mobility and give you the ultimate access to their body.

2. Rope

Rope is one of those great household items you can turn into an extremely erotic bondage aid. While rope choice and knot knowledge is crucial (beginners should start with nylon and a few knot tying lessons), once you get going it can be a lot of fun. Use the rope to tie your partner into traditional japanese bondage or simply tie them into an X on your bed. No need for an extensive restraint system when all you need is rope and a little ingenuity.

3. Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps can be fun for both parties. As a dom, they are beautiful to look at and for the sub, well its an intoxicating pain that can be overwhelmingly hot. Nipple clamps come in so many variations that you’ll be able to find a pair that both of you enjoy.

4. Blindfold

A blindfold is one of the simplest bondage toys. You can get a standard sleep mask or even use something around the house like a scarf, tie, shirt or pillow case. Blindfolds are great for asserting control and taking away one of your sub’s senses.

5. Whips/Crops

Whips and crops are two great ways to instill some punishment and obedience into your sub. If you’re just starting out, I recommend a whip that is a little softer in nature, like a plastic one. It will still hurt but not as much as it’s leather counter part. Crops were truly made to hurt and come with a steel rod inside, a steel rod that will definitely leave a mark, physically and mentally.

6. Ball gag

Ball gags are great when you have sub that needs to learn how to shut up every once and awhile. Strap one of these to their face and suddenly, you’ll notice they are very quiet. Ball gags are comprised of a giant ball (think of a Jawbreaker) that is connected to a strap that can wrap around the head.

7. Anal Beads

Anal beads are perfect for the couple who is looking to add a little anal play into their routine, whether they’re gearing up for anal sex or just want to add it to foreplay. Anal beads look just like beads that are strung on a string. Sex stores like Adam and Eve sell a variety of anal beads. You can get them made of silicone, jelly and even glass. Be sure to pair these toys with lots of lube.

9. Bondage tape

Bondage tape is a fun alternative to rope–whether you’re looking for something a little intense or don’t feel comfortable with using rope yet. Bondage tape is rolled like duct tape and sticks to itself and not your skin. You can use bondage tape to tie your partner into knots, to themselves or to various objects around your house or dungeon. It’s easy to use and easy to get off.

10. Collar

A collar is an excellent way to demonstrate ownership over your sub. Many people in the lifestyle view collars as a symbol of a very sacred bond between a sub and dom. Take your time with picking a collar and do it in a meaningful way.

  One Response to “Nine Must Have Bondage Toys”

  1. Its really great review to know about this information..Thanks a lot for sharing your post.
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