Comments on: Home http://dakadom.com A Safe Place for Talk, Guidance and Info on Fetish, Kink, D/s-BDSM Sexuality Sat, 28 Apr 2012 19:55:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Stephen http://dakadom.com/#comment-1827 Stephen Tue, 22 Nov 2011 02:49:56 +0000 http://dakadom.com/?page_id=85#comment-1827 Thank You, Amy, for Your insights and passion. i fully agree, that patriarchy has suppressed women's sexuality.. it has, indeed, opressed women in many ways. At 67, (Fetlife, loyalslave11) i have found myself deeply in need of the Goddess in my life and the transcendance She brings, and long for a relationship with a woman who represents this Goddess to me. Along with this, the concept of Female Supremacy is very interesting. This is not reverse patriarchy, or women's turn to oppress men. It is a fantasy of the natural order as imagined by mythologies from ancient times to today. my experience is that i could not be the male person i have become without the Feminist movement who not only brought freedom for women , but for men as well. Their persistent sense of equality has enabled everyone to seek equity in every aspect of their lives, including sexuality. An outcome of Feminism, i believe, is the sex positive culture which embraces sexuality as a beautiful truth and beauty of life, in all its forms. But prejudice, especially about kink, will continue to exist to some extent, just as anti semetism and the like have. As Gordon Allport's research on prejudice showed prejudgement is a part of human consciousness, part of a protective system and the need to identify with a group as one's "in group", and he said, every InGroup needs an OutGroup. Within ourselves we make this decison as to which in group and out groups exist for us. It is a great thing, Amy, to read of Your self definition, with strength and pride. Be well, everyone, and may Your peronal sexual mythologies continue to grow and develop contibuting to Your happiness and fulfillment. Thank You nfor this blog. Stephen Thank You, Amy, for Your insights and passion. i fully agree, that patriarchy has suppressed women’s sexuality.. it has, indeed, opressed women in many ways.

At 67, (Fetlife, loyalslave11) i have found myself deeply in need of the Goddess in my life and the transcendance She brings, and long for a relationship with a woman who represents this Goddess to me. Along with this, the concept of Female Supremacy is very interesting.
This is not reverse patriarchy, or women’s turn to oppress men. It is a fantasy of the natural order as imagined by mythologies from ancient times to today.

my experience is that i could not be the male person i have become without the Feminist movement who not only brought freedom for women , but for men as well. Their persistent sense of equality has enabled everyone to seek equity in every aspect of their lives, including sexuality. An outcome of Feminism, i believe, is the sex positive culture which embraces sexuality as a beautiful truth and beauty of life, in all its forms.

But prejudice, especially about kink, will continue to exist to some extent, just as anti semetism and the like have. As Gordon Allport’s research on prejudice showed prejudgement is a part of human consciousness, part of a protective system and the need to identify with a group as one’s “in group”, and he said, every InGroup needs an OutGroup.

Within ourselves we make this decison as to which in group and out groups exist for us. It is a great thing, Amy, to read of Your self definition, with strength and pride.
Be well, everyone, and may Your peronal sexual mythologies continue to grow and develop contibuting to Your happiness and fulfillment.

Thank You nfor this blog.

Stephen

]]> By: SusanDFW http://dakadom.com/#comment-822 SusanDFW Tue, 20 Sep 2011 03:49:11 +0000 http://dakadom.com/?page_id=85#comment-822 i love your Fetlife Profile and the words i am reading so far on this blog...while i am still very much on the path of unpacking my sexuality from shame and other roots in my life...i am also on a path of healing through sexuality for myself and i hope one day for others...thank you for this site and all you share... My best... i love your Fetlife Profile and the words i am reading so far on this blog…while i am still very much on the path of unpacking my sexuality from shame and other roots in my life…i am also on a path of healing through sexuality for myself and i hope one day for others…thank you for this site and all you share…

My best…

]]> By: Ed http://dakadom.com/#comment-770 Ed Thu, 15 Sep 2011 20:36:51 +0000 http://dakadom.com/?page_id=85#comment-770 Are you going to be doing a workshop in the Sedona. AZ. area in the near future? Are you going to be doing a workshop in the Sedona. AZ. area in the near future?

]]> By: DakaDom http://dakadom.com/#comment-70 DakaDom Mon, 11 Jul 2011 17:28:59 +0000 http://dakadom.com/?page_id=85#comment-70 Thank you Amy, for the courage to be who you are and support and encourage others to do so...keep speaking out! Thank you Amy, for the courage to be who you are and support and encourage others to do so…keep speaking out!

]]> By: Amy Redman http://dakadom.com/#comment-69 Amy Redman Mon, 11 Jul 2011 17:11:07 +0000 http://dakadom.com/?page_id=85#comment-69 I am a 61 year old crone goddess who within the last 3 years has experienced a huge sexual awakening....being introduced to sacred sexuality and goddess worship....supporting the feminine and the orgasmic bliss available to a mature woman for the rest of her life....this is a gift that should not be dismissed, hidden or ignored....It is my quest to help introduce my peer group...the baby boomer crone goddesses... to the gifts that are within...and most easily accessed thru sexual energies.....I am dedicated to serving the divine by communicating what I have learned and what the possibilities are...truthfully I believe the Patriarchal culture has robbed woman of their femininity...by depriving them of this truth...let alone all the other tragedies....like woman being so alienated from their bodies that they have no idea what and who their bodies are....that is so wrong...for a woman to reach maturity and not understand the power of orgasmic love or how her body can engender this incredible power for the well being of our existence.....is to be cheated of her right to joy. I am so excited about the sexual consciousness community who is opening doors every day...it is a new frontier...a growth industry even....and your take on perversion is a perfect example of the knowledge and acceptance we all need for ourselves and our partners....we all want to connect... it really is all there is....love... in what ever shape it takes for you...and woman are so incredibly repressed....and the world suffers every day...including all the men who want to connect themselves and can't...no one is ok in the toxicity we live in....the shift is on...and your truth is part of it...thanks for sharing. I am a 61 year old crone goddess who within the last 3 years has experienced a huge sexual awakening….being introduced to sacred sexuality and goddess worship….supporting the feminine and the orgasmic bliss available to a mature woman for the rest of her life….this is a gift that should not be dismissed, hidden or ignored….It is my quest to help introduce my peer group…the baby boomer crone goddesses… to the gifts that are within…and most easily accessed thru sexual energies…..I am dedicated to serving the divine by communicating what I have learned and what the possibilities are…truthfully I believe the Patriarchal culture has robbed woman of their femininity…by depriving them of this truth…let alone all the other tragedies….like woman being so alienated from their bodies that they have no idea what and who their bodies are….that is so wrong…for a woman to reach maturity and not understand the power of orgasmic love or how her body can engender this incredible power for the well being of our existence…..is to be cheated of her right to joy. I am so excited about the sexual consciousness community who is opening doors every day…it is a new frontier…a growth industry even….and your take on perversion is a perfect example of the knowledge and acceptance we all need for ourselves and our partners….we all want to connect… it really is all there is….love… in what ever shape it takes for you…and woman are so incredibly repressed….and the world suffers every day…including all the men who want to connect themselves and can’t…no one is ok in the toxicity we live in….the shift is on…and your truth is part of it…thanks for sharing.

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