Released and Lost

[adore]

The intensity of my recent M/s relationship has left me broken into pieces because of the loss of our deep connection.  While we have agreed to establish a non-committed relationship with play still involved, I just can't shake the emptiness that still remains.  How do I get over this loss of being owned...the grip and leash were so strong and tight I do not believe I will be able to find that again.

How do I get over my ex-Master?

[adore]

As with any deep relationship, break-up/release/turmoil is difficult to deal with.  In my quest to find what is right for me, as it relates to a D/s dynamic, the attachment is most powerful.  I have resolved the conflict with Master, and the abrupt "release" I spoke of in my posting was instigated by me, therefore, I was responsible for ending my enslavement to Master. 

I have begged to be taken back and to pursue our relationship again.  Not because I am being manipulated by a predator, but because I want what he offers.  Master is loving, compassionate, and supportive of me in all ways, both in and out of our M/s relationship.  I have learned so much about myself as a person and a woman.  If anything Master has helped me explore the depths I have always wanted to dive into, with care and love for my well-being. 

While you express much anger and rage, I don't like like that your attack is unjustly cruel and vindictive.  Some relationships work out and some do not, being enslaved is a choice, a preference, and is not about abuse or intentional harm.